Monday, August 26, 2013

Nijenrode Reunion 2013

The Nijenrode Brotherhood met on a mildly sunny afternoon at the lovely beach home of Peter and Janet Stanley.  Those in attendance:  Earl Armbruster, Ron Greisen, Bruce Kindler, Mike Gehrke, Tom Emrich, John Barline, Jim Smith, Tom Sjostrom, Lon Lembert, Mike Timm, Pete Stanley, Jerry Shelor, and on his virgin visit, Dave West.  Sandor Thomassen joined the group, the only Dutchman - he gave the gathering a touch of class.  Wives in attendance were Janet Stanley, Sally Barline, Kathy Gehrke, Hannah Emrich, Glennie Sjostrom, Zoe Armbruster, and Tona Greisen. 

The stories seem to get wilder and grander, but I love them.  The fellas love telling them, especially after a glass of wine or two.  Pete, Mike and John barbecued chicken skewers, salmon and flank steak.  Mike made a shrimp dip for snacking.  Sally prepared lemon squares and brownies and Mike made white chocolate covered strawberries dipped  in blue sugar.  I made Swedish Tea Cake for tomorrow morning's breakfast.  After a walk on the beach, an eagle sighting, and a bit of golf (hitting the balls into the Sound), we sat down to dinner and more stories.  Mike Timm even decided to call Dick Roberts in Pennsylvania to razz him about not being here with the group - he usually shows up.

As folks began to leave at ten o'clock, some staying with the Stanley's, some heading back to their Gig Harbor hotel rooms, Mike and I were glad we had decided to drive home to our own bed.  It was a big day, another successful reunion. . . . . . . .but. . . . . .something was missing. . .just a bit off kilter.  It wasn't difficult to think back about what could be causing this feeling that things just weren't quite right.  Jack and Myra weren't with us.  Jack's passing mid June was a shock to us all; we all, including wife Myra, thought we had years more - but it wasn't to be.  Jack loved these reunions.  He was the Life of the Party.  They're wonderful gatherings, but they will never be as bright with the three amigos as they were with Four.  Hate the thought of that number going any lower.  As we look forward to a reunion in Holland in 2017, I wonder who will be there. . .will I travel again?  I've learned to never say never.  If I do go, I hope to see Glennie and Zoe again.  They are Oregon residents; I wish they lived closer - two lovely, gentle ladies. 


Thursday, August 1, 2013

Moving On

Had lunch with a great friend today.  If she reads this, she'll think (and she'd be right!) I'm putting this on my blog site because she told me today that she has read some of my blogs.  Today was a poignant lunch, our last lunch together as fellow Washingtonians.  She and her husband are moving to the East Coast.  I am so happy for them as I think about this new adventure.  Moving just down the street from her best friend, she surprised me with remarks about a bit of a tug to the Northwest and her lovely home with a view of our beautiful Puget Sound.  She has an open, adventurous heart and will, I predict, settle in quickly to her new surroundings, home and community.  They will return every now and then to see old friends and enjoy our breathtaking, but unpredictable, summer weather.  As I prepare to say Bon Voyage, I know I will miss knowing she's just "up the road a piece", but look forward with great anticipation to her newsy emails, especially pictures of her new granddaughter.
Thanks for the memories, dear friend.  I wish you the best always.